We all have fantasies; they might vary from being incredibly wild or sensually subtle. Whatever fantasies we choose to have they need to be fulfilled before we reach the age where these fantasies are hard to achieve. The thought of me wearing a sexy maid’s outfit in my 40's just doesn't sit well with my stomach. I don’t want to make anyone puke let alone my husband (fingers crossed i'll be married by then).
When it comes to fulfilling these fantasies you need to let your partner know exactly what you want so that he/she might be able to make it happen. It's kind of scary for your man to walk in your bedroom or he's and there you are tied to a bedpost blind folded and him wondering who the hell tied you to the bed in the first place. However, surprises can also be good. But its better to discuss these things before the fantasies can be fulfilled. If you are shy about confessing your fantasies to your man, why not write down little notes and leave them somewhere he might be able to notice in an instance. I.e he's laptop or he's PS2. That is the only way he might notice your little notes unless he is so engrossed in he's boys toys then I suggest you tell him or show him.
Being extremely vocal always plays a big part in achieving your fantasies, try telling him what you would like to do to him first. The anticipation of actually getting down to business will drive him wild. Fantasies are there to be fulfilled so if you have a few under your sleeve there is no point of keeping them up there. Try out a little indulging, it will only make your sex life much more enjoyable and your man/woman will appreciate you sharing these fantasies with them.
Elle
Writer and Editor
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